Shore to Shore: Exploring our Personal Black History

Graphic of the article title and a quote from Emmanuela GiniKa Ebunilo.

Blackness is not a monolith. This phrase has been on repeat for years, but I’m convinced it's a cry that’s been reduced to black noise. Do people truly appreciate the nuance that exists under the Black banner? If they did, defining such an intricately diverse group of people by a phenotypical trait seems as silly as reducing the human body to one kind of cell. My general assumption is most people aren't silly, but sometimes I wonder.

I know Blackness is not a monolith because Candace Owens and Dr. Umar Johnson exist in the same universe. And then there is me.

I was born in a British-colonized African nation, yet from a young age, I was a regular viewer of the Mexican telenovelas “Los Ricos También Lloran” and Tu o nadie.” I had no true concept of what it meant to be Black until I moved to the States and went to Mother Henderson’s daycare.

This memory makes me ponder my privilege. Though I was born on a continent many associate with famine and poverty, my upbringing didn't reflect that. The irony is, before I moved to the States, my childhood was mostly peaceful and pampered. When raised with people who look like you, you are not defined by the color of your skin. Your words and actions are your social currency. It's taken many years of reflection to realize this is privilege.

It is privilege to know where your ancestors originate and to know you have a history that dates back millennia.

It is privilege to have a country to return to if this social experiment fails.

It is privilege to have a mindset built on an understanding that my worth is not defined by my skin color.

Even as a member of a minority group not readily associated with privilege, I recognize my privilege exists. And the question that constantly rings in my mind is: Now that you know you have it, what are you going to do with it?

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Emmanuela GiniKa Ebunilo
(She/Her)
Strategist

Graphic of the article title and a quote from Emmanuela GiniKa Ebunilo.

Blackness is not a monolith. This phrase has been on repeat for years, but I’m convinced it's a cry that’s been reduced to black noise. Do people truly appreciate the nuance that exists under the Black banner? If they did, defining such an intricately diverse group of people by a phenotypical trait seems as silly as reducing the human body to one kind of cell. My general assumption is most people aren't silly, but sometimes I wonder.

I know Blackness is not a monolith because Candace Owens and Dr. Umar Johnson exist in the same universe. And then there is me.

I was born in a British-colonized African nation, yet from a young age, I was a regular viewer of the Mexican telenovelas “Los Ricos También Lloran” and Tu o nadie.” I had no true concept of what it meant to be Black until I moved to the States and went to Mother Henderson’s daycare.

This memory makes me ponder my privilege. Though I was born on a continent many associate with famine and poverty, my upbringing didn't reflect that. The irony is, before I moved to the States, my childhood was mostly peaceful and pampered. When raised with people who look like you, you are not defined by the color of your skin. Your words and actions are your social currency. It's taken many years of reflection to realize this is privilege.

It is privilege to know where your ancestors originate and to know you have a history that dates back millennia.

It is privilege to have a country to return to if this social experiment fails.

It is privilege to have a mindset built on an understanding that my worth is not defined by my skin color.

Even as a member of a minority group not readily associated with privilege, I recognize my privilege exists. And the question that constantly rings in my mind is: Now that you know you have it, what are you going to do with it?

Headshot of Emmanuela GiniKa Ebunilo
Emmanuela GiniKa Ebunilo
Strategist

Blackness is not a monolith. This phrase has been on repeat for years, but I’m convinced it's a cry that’s been reduced to black noise. Do people truly appreciate the nuance that exists under the Black banner? If they did, defining such an intricately diverse group of people by a phenotypical trait seems as silly as reducing the human body to one kind of cell. My general assumption is most people aren't silly, but sometimes I wonder.

I know Blackness is not a monolith because Candace Owens and Dr. Umar Johnson exist in the same universe. And then there is me.

I was born in a British-colonized African nation, yet from a young age, I was a regular viewer of the Mexican telenovelas “Los Ricos También Lloran” and Tu o nadie.” I had no true concept of what it meant to be Black until I moved to the States and went to Mother Henderson’s daycare.

This memory makes me ponder my privilege. Though I was born on a continent many associate with famine and poverty, my upbringing didn't reflect that. The irony is, before I moved to the States, my childhood was mostly peaceful and pampered. When raised with people who look like you, you are not defined by the color of your skin. Your words and actions are your social currency. It's taken many years of reflection to realize this is privilege.

It is privilege to know where your ancestors originate and to know you have a history that dates back millennia.

It is privilege to have a country to return to if this social experiment fails.

It is privilege to have a mindset built on an understanding that my worth is not defined by my skin color.

Even as a member of a minority group not readily associated with privilege, I recognize my privilege exists. And the question that constantly rings in my mind is: Now that you know you have it, what are you going to do with it?

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